Smile is the God's best gift. Smile comes on our face on two occasions, when we are extremely happy or when we are extremely sad and we remember something good that happened in the past.
What I have learnt from my life is that its very easy to shift from Laughter to tears or from smile to tears. But to make a change from Tears to smile requires great effort. There are many things which will take away the smile on your face in no time. As we all know that its damn easy to forget the good things when a bad one is in action. One bad thing has longer effect as compared to hundred Good things. Even a small Pin can cause your tears to come out in fraction of seconds but sometimes even the biggest things are not able to give you the happiness. Real happiness is never about materialistic things, It lies in the quality of our life and our day to day activities. As we all know Happiness is not an act its a habit or a long term process. Happiness is achieved after doing many activities which our heart and brain both together give consent about. Those acts will bring smile on our face and when it becomes your routine that you always keep smiling then only you will be considered as happy.
Resources lie everywhere. We just need perfect person to relocate them to the right place. In the same way in every one's potential there is the power to convert sadness into happiness but doing it for oneself by their own is indeed a tough task. We always need a friend, a philosopher, a guide to identify things for us or at least give us their opinions about what they feel. If we are in some trouble then we should share our heart out with them without being afraid of the fact that they may make fun of us. Actually a true friend will never do that. Indeed if that person is really great then he/she will definitely guide you towards the path of happiness.
All we need to do is to identify who in our life is capable of changing our directions. Once we identify them, we have to become completely selfish and get behind them in knowing the best things for us and after it we just have to follow them rigorously. Along with that person's guidance we should also see what exactly our heart wants. After that we should blend those things in our mind and after a good mental exercise we will definitely know what i giving you happiness and what is driving you towards sadness. This indeed is very confusing most of the times. Because there might be some persons who are giving you happiness but in the long run they are only responsible for your tears. So one needs to think a lot on that and find such persons as soon as possible and once that is done then we should just stay away from them.
Every loser can cry on what he/she has lost in life. But if the lost thing wasn't really valuable then there is no need to cry on it. Only a matured person can understand this and can save his/her valuable tears. Only with the help of a Paradigm shift this can happen. There is no divine reason behind most of the things that happen in our life, they just happen. If they don't have a valid reason, then they are not even important and we should not waste our time on thinking more about it.
This shift can't take place on its own. We need to work on it by self, obviously we may need help for that. But only we should decide what exactly we want from our life. We should visualize our future and then give up on the things that are holding our happiness. We should bid goodbye to all those beliefs, relations, habits which are stopping us from achieving success in life. At one stage of life you definitely have to become selfish because at the end of the life you should feel contended with your life and for that you have to work hard during your entire life.
Sadness arrives because of something that happened in the past and once you stop giving importance to your past, sadness will also disappear. We should dream about our future and become happy about it. It will definitely help us in improving our habits and we will definitely achieve success in our life.
Thus, If one experiences such Paradigm Shift then it is going to nurture him in his future for sure.
